Items that are commonly referred to as fidgets are small manipulatives that provide sensory input or engage the attention of the child during “quiet” events. Fidgets often allow the child with ADHD or Autism to attend a special activity without excessive talking or movement. Fidgets allow families to attend graduations and weddings together with minimal behavioral upset.
Examples of Fidgets
Parents and kids can work together to create a take along bag of appropriate items. The bag might consist of familiar items and a surprise fidget. The following are examples of fidgets.
- Small, manipulative toys (car, doll, bendable figure)
- A small hand held game (that can be muted)
- A squeeze toy (such as a balloon filled with ¾ cup of flour or a stress ball)
- A small strip of Velcro (only one side)
- A textured toy or blanket
- A small tablet and crayons or a pencil
Some fidgets are actually food items. They provide oral sensory stimulation that is a stress reliever to many kids. Some food items to consider are:
- Gum
- Gummy bears
Other items that might be considered that are not actually fidgets, but great diversions include:
- Books
- Music players with headphones
Acceptable Guidelines for Fidgets
Parents should consider the appropriate choice of fidgets. Obviously, fidgets that make sound or flash lights are not suitable for a special occasion that will include a large crowd of people. In addition, fidgets should be chosen based on the child’s needs. Every child would love to take something to do during a lengthy graduation ceremony. However, a child who is capable of sitting during a ceremony should be expected to do so just the same as other guests, or he should be expected to watch the ceremony for a time that coincides with his individual abilities and needs.
Consider when the fidgets will be used. Some kids need something to relieve the stress of an unfamiliar situation. Others can participate in the event for a period of time before they need something to divert their attention. Talking about the expectations ahead of time can reduce misunderstanding and the need for intervention at the event.
Naturally, not every occasion is appropriate for every child with a special need. If the child is easily overwhelmed in unfamiliar situations, or if the need for movement is too great, families may wish to consider a childcare arrangement that will be more enjoyable for everyone. Otherwise, careful selection of fidgets can allow many kids to be a part of the special family event at hand.
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