Thanksgiving in the United States is celebrated on a long weekend. How can parents most effectively plan for travel with a child with a disability?
Abraham Lincoln proclaimed Thanksgiving a national holiday in 1863.
265 million turkeys raised in the U. S. this year (U.S. Census Bureau) means a lot of feasting and a lot of travel to get to Grandma's or Uncle Joe's. The number of travelers is estimated to be the highest on Wednesday and Sunday because it is a long weekend, whereas the Christmas travel is spread out over a week or two.
Here are my travel tips to help you feel a little more thankful and a little less frenzied this year.
1. Consider the way you will travel.
2. Plan travel time.
Whether driving or going by public transportation, try to travel when it will be less crowded.
Try to travel when your child is rested (in good spirits) or when he can sleep.
Avoid mealtime travel.
3. Communicate specific needs ahead of travel.
If traveling by public transportation, call or email ahead to verify specific seating and assistance needs.
Verify the time you should arrive to allow for assistance.
4. Bring necessary medical information, equipment, and medicines.
This goes without saying, and yet it is often overlooked. Have a checklist of necessary items and information so that you don't leave something important at home.
5. Bring a few comforts of home.
Whether it is a favorite stuffed animal or an iPod, kids have favorite possessions. Let your child be involved in the selecion of a few, appropriate items to take.
Consider snacks that can be taken. This is the time to leave the extra sugar at home.
Will your child have what is necessary to rest during travel? A light blanket can make everyone comfortable if it means that Junior can sleep.
6. Bring some special treats.
Are there some special snacks that your child does not get often? The right snacks (low sugar, high energy) can sweeten the trip.
7. Have a few surprises up your sleeve.
A surprise book or small toy can save the trip. Try to hold off giving it until your child needs a diversion.
8. Talk with your children ahead of travel time.
Kids like to know what is happening. Mark your trip (including the return) on the family calendar.
Talk about how you will travel.
Talk about travel expectations: what can and cannot go, respect for other travelers, etc.
9. Be flexible.
Once you are on the way, be flexible. Unexpected things come up even on the best planned trip. It is okay if Sara sings in the airport when other travelers are sleeping. Smile. Encourage her to sing softly, or move to another area.
10. Have fun.
Smile.
Enjoy.
Relax.
Be thankful.
Have fun.
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