Children and teens, particularly those with special needs, need a plan. Having a schedule in the summer, helps them understand and cope with the world's expectations.
We are a society of planners. We have "To Do" lists and calendars in our homes and offices. They are on our computers; we carry them with us. Children and teens, particularly those with special needs, need a plan, too. Having a schedule, even in the sweet months of summer, helps them understand and cope with the world's expectations.
Communication It can be frustrating to explain to a deaf child that swimming lessons are every Thursday morning, 8:00 - 9:00. Words are confusing for an autistic child. Too many words - no communication! You want your child to brush teeth after breakfast and before bed. Try a picture schedule. The expectation is communicated; the habit is established; and you are both happier. In fact you have communicated, just in a different way!!!!
Emotional Preparation Many children with special needs are overwhelmed by new or unexpected situations. A trip to a noisy pizza restaurant may not be fun. Because we want to encourage social skills, going to the pizza place may still be a good idea. It is best, though, not to let the outing be a surprise. Suppose Susie has Down Syndrome and does not like the grocery store. What will be next? Are you there for milk and then going home? Maybe she will get to watch a video while you fix lunch. The errand is something with an end. A schedule helps her cope.
Teaching Responsibility You hope that your ADHD child will have a blend of quiet activity, rowdy fun, and reasonable chores. If Bobby knows that he always takes his plate to the sink after a meal, it will happen without argument or confusion. If Jill loves to jump on her trampoline in the mornings, include it on the schedule and use a timer to let her know when it is time to switch to lunch.
A Break for Parents You should have a sweet summer as well. If the schedule includes some independent times (rest, TV, play with a favorite toy) you will have a few minutes for your own hobby.
You may be thinking THIS IS SUMMER - do we really need a schedule? Schedules provide for routine, fun and spontaneity.
How do you set up a summer schedule? Read my next article:
Schedules for Special Needs Kids: A Way to Balance Summer Fun.
Note: All children in this article are fictitious and represent general characteristics of the disability.
© 2006 Lynn Moore No portion of this article may be copied or distributed without the written consent of the author.
